Making MeaningĀ of Your Memories

Practical tips and insights to uncover and write about the memories that have shaped your life.

Unwrapping Christmas Memories memoirs memories Dec 21, 2023

When I was in college, my Aunt Ruth and Uncle Glen invited me for a fireside dinner in their living room every year at Christmastime. We’d eat by candlelight and listen to a recording of...

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Writing About My Trauma Set Me Free memoirs writing tips Dec 15, 2023

I never planned to write a memoir. Even though I had spent a good part of my career ghostwriting and editing other people’s stories, it never occurred to me that I might one day want to tell...

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You've Finished Your First Draft. Now What? memoirs writing tips Dec 06, 2023

Every November I host a 30-day Memoir Writing Challenge (National Memoir Writing Month—NaMeWriMo) modeled after the longstanding National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). My challenge...

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One First-Draft Mistake that Hurts Your Memoir getting started memoirs writing tips Nov 28, 2023

One mistake I consistently see memoir writers make is being guarded in their first draft. Likely, they're following the commonly accepted advice to "write from your scars, not your...

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How to Incorporate Elements of Fiction into Your Memoir memoirs writing tips Nov 15, 2023

The first time I wrote a memoir, my editor suggested I add more elements of fiction to it. While I had done a good job capturing the facts, it lacked vivid descriptions to draw readers into each...

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6 Crucial Decisions for Crafting Your Memoir getting started memoirs Nov 09, 2023

Writing a memoir is a deeply personal and often cathartic experience. It's an opportunity to share your unique story with the world, to explore your past, and to connect with readers on a profound...

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When Your Memoir Needs a Reboot getting started memoirs productivity Oct 28, 2023

Maya Angelou famously said, "There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you." Your untold story, your untapped potential, is a fire smoldering within you. If you've let your...

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6 Tips for Using Writing Prompts writing tips Jun 08, 2023

Writing a memoir is no easy feat, especially if you're struggling to remember some of the most pivotal moments in your life. But fear not, there are ways to unlock those memories and put them down...

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Who Your Memoir Is Really About memoirs writing tips May 21, 2023

Everybody who decides to write a memoir starts with a “why” in mind. (Or at least they should.) We long to tell the stories of traumas and trials we’ve triumphed over; to...

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Top 3 Reasons People Never Write Their Memoir getting started memoir mindset memoirs Apr 08, 2023

Writing a memoir can be a powerful and transformative experience. The process of writing about your life allows you to reflect on your past, share your life story with others, and leave a lasting...

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Time to Review Your Memoir Writing Progress memoir mindset productivity Mar 28, 2023

As the second quarter of 2023 begins, it's a great time to reflect on your writing goals for the year. Have you made progress towards achieving them? Have you encountered any obstacles or...

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How Long Does It Take to Write a Memoir? memoir mindset memoirs productivity Feb 27, 2023

You're ready to write your memoir. But how long will it take to finish your first draft? The answer to this question depends on a few factors. 

First, a couple of...

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