Making Meaning of Your Memories

Practical tips and insights to uncover and write about the memories that have shaped your life.

Marked by a Moment: How My Dad’s Last Hug Shaped My Story memoir memories Jun 11, 2025

I can still hear the heavy thud of my father coming up the stairs. He was pretending to be a monster. At six years old, those footsteps filled me with a nervous hope. Maybe tonight, my dad was coming to say goodnight to me.

He came into my room as the “tickle monster,” roaring and laughing as I squ...

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Summer Reading Stack (2025 Edition) memoir Jun 05, 2025

I waited all day for the Amazon driver to arrive. When the box finally showed up, I tore it open and found the three new books I ordered to add to the memoir I’ve already started for my summer reading. Here’s what will be on my nightstand for the next couple of months:

You Could Make This Place Bea...

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Start with a Strong Premise: The First Step to Writing a Compelling Memoir getting started memoir memoirs writing tips May 16, 2025

Before you start writing your memoir, there’s one crucial decision to make that will shape everything else: your premise.

A premise is more than just the summary of your story. It’s the "big idea" that holds your memoir together—the through line that keeps you focused, your readers engaged, and you...

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From Journal to Memoir: How Daily Writing Can Shape Your Life Story memoir memoirs writing tips May 09, 2025

If you’ve ever scribbled thoughts into a notebook after a long day or jotted down a vivid dream before it faded, you’ve already begun the practice that many memoir writers swear by: journaling. I’ve been writing in journals most of my life. As an adult, journaling has been one of the most practical ...

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Spring Cleaning for Writers: 5 Ways to Organize Your Memoir Project memoir organization tips Apr 22, 2025

There’s something about spring—maybe it’s the longer days or the fresh breeze through open windows—that makes us want to tidy up. But spring cleaning isn’t just for your closet or kitchen. If you're writing a memoir, this is the perfect season to clean up your creative process, too.

Memoir writing ...

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From Soul to Story: How to Write About Your Faith getting started memoir writing tips Apr 13, 2025

Writing about your faith for the first time can feel like standing on the edge of something tender and holy. You have a story—a moment of awakening, a stretch of wilderness, a quiet transformation—and something in you wants to put words to it. Maybe it’s for your journal. Maybe for your memoir. Or m...

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Feeling Scattered in Your Writing Life? Here’s One Way to Get Back on Track memoir memoirs organization tips productivity Apr 03, 2025

You know the feeling.

You're standing in a room full of half-unpacked boxes, random objects scattered everywhere—a lamp on the floor, papers in piles, a chair draped in laundry, and zero idea where your water bottle went.

Welcome to Scattered Brain Syndrome.

Okay, it’s not an official diagnosis, ...

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